Daniel Angle is like a lot of seventeen
year-old boys: he likes basketball, has just picked up snowboarding,
loves practical jokes, and wants to fit in with his peers. Daniel is
also, as of last year, a camper at Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp.
His mother, Judy England, says Daniel
was initially hesitant about going camp. He had been away from home
before, but never for such a long time and with people he didn't
know.
“That's usually his style. He's the
kind of kid who decides to stand and watch for a while before he
jumps in,” Judy explains. “It's like dipping your toe in before
you jump in, but once he watches, he's pretty good.”
Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp turned out to be
a wonderful experience for Daniel in terms of growing his sense of
self and his self esteem. Not only did he enjoy the feeling of
independence from his family, but he also came home with a great
sense of what he could do. He went swimming, played basketball and
volleyball, and he even tried zip lining.
“I imagine he said 'No' several times
before he went and did it but walked away going 'Woohoo!' It was
really awesome.”
Equally important to Daniel's
experience was the interactions he had with the counselors at MHKC.
Like most, Daniel loves being around people who show they care about
him, and that's what he got from his counselors. They were funny,
which is exactly the kind of person Daniel likes to be around. He is
a practical joker, a fun-loving high schooler who dances to his own
tune, so interacting with his counselors in a playful, goofy way
helped ensure that he would come back to camp this summer.
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“He likes older kids, so he just
loves the counselors,” says
Judy. “He could sense that they were really there for him,
and he likes that. He's a goofball. He likes to play tricks and he
likes to sneak up on people, and everyone played with him. Everyone
fell for it, you know. He was having fun.”
Interacting with his counselors was
probably the easiest part for Daniel. At school, he gets assistance
from resource centers and a life skills counselor, but he is in
regular ed classes. Sometimes being with kids who have more serious
issues can be challenging for him because he wants to be the
opposite. He wants be just like everybody else who, in his mind, is
'normal'. He wants to be like the people in his classes.
“In the big world where people move
as at a high rate of speed, Daniel can get along and fit in, but he's
not like everybody else,” says Judy. “You know, the world keeps
moving and he has to navigate at that high rate of speed. But at
camp, it's like, 'We're all good.'”
This, according to Judy, is one of the
beauties of Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp.
“There is just a wide range of kids
and needs and all that kind of stuff, and Daniel feels as normal as
normal can be. And that's pretty impressive for a group of people to
have created an environment like that.”
Judy says that her and Daniel's first
experience with MHKC was pure pleasure. Not only did Daniel have fun
and gain a stronger sense of independence and self-esteem, he also
got to interact with different types of people and learn from those
interactions. The same can be said for counselors at MHKC.
“If you want to have fun, this is a
great place to be,” Judy tells future counselors. “Open your
heart and go have some fun. It's a cool group of people.”
Agreed!
Judy's concluding remarks were, I found, particularly poignant, because I've heard something
very similar from former counselors said about their campers:
“To know that these people are doing
something that they love and giving back and being there for kids
just makes my heart burst. It's like, until you know, you don't know,
and then all of a sudden you get it, that this is an incredible group
of people who really put their hearts out, and as a parent, you
couldn't ask for more when you have a kids with differences.”
Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp is just one of
those things you have to experience in order to understand the impact
it makes one everyone involved, from staff to camper to counselor to
parent. You don't know, and then all of a sudden you get it.