As I was walking from my English class
to Seattle's Best Coffee, where I was to meet Jimmy for the first
time, I was suddenly overcome with an embarrassed anxiety: I did not
know anything about Jimmy, including what he looked like, and I
assumed he knew as little about me. How was I going to know which guy
was the one I was supposed to talk to? But I didn't need to worry;
Jimmy was sitting at the bar-style counter along the window wearing a
blue sweatshirt with the words “Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp” printed
across the chest. “I almost wore the gray one with the tree on it,”
he smiled, clearly showing his Kiwanis pride.
Jimmy is currently a senior at
Portland State, where he is studying psychology. When it came time
for him to choose a senior capstone project, he chose to be a
counselor at Mt. Hood Kiwanis Camp after browsing through a list of
capstones because it had been recommended to him by a few people and
because the idea of a hands-on program appealed to him. “Writing
grants isn't really my thing,” he says, “and Kiwanis seemed more
rewarding. You get to make an impact on people's lives.” Not to
mention, of course, that the two-week duration added to the appeal.
However, the brevity of MHKC became
irrelevant to Jimmy, who had the opportunity to go back for two more
sessions after he had finished his original session as camp
counselor. Despite all of the fun to be had at Kiwanis, being a
counselor comes with many challenges and responsibilities, and
occasionally people are sent home because the challenge is too great.
Watching people leave early is unfortunate, but it worked out twice
in Jimmy's favor; He got invited back to sub in for a couple of
counselors. “I got to experience Kiwanis more than any other counselor.
It was great. I felt like an honorary counselor or something.”
That isn't to say that Jimmy did not
have his fair share of fears and challenges to overcome. Going into
the program, one of Jimmy's main concerns involved personal care. He
was worried he might overstep his boundaries or make a camper
uncomfortable, fears which were augmented by difficulties in
communication between counselor and camper. However, Jimmy quickly
learned to move past these obstacles so that everyone could enjoy the
camp to the fullest extent. “This is an opportunity for
everyone—campers and counselors alike—to have fun and be
themselves without any judgment,” he says.
Throughout our conversation, Jimmy
often repeated that MHKC truly is fun for everyone involved. Just as
often, though, he stressed the seriousness and the responsibility of
being a counselor, noting that the most important quality a counselor
should have is patience. He says that it's also necessary to be
flexible and innovative, but if you don't have patience and you
aren't willing to step up to help people have a good time, then
perhaps Kiwanis isn't the program for you. “It's not a cakewalk,”
Jimmy smiles. He affirms, however, that feeling of accomplishment at
the end of camp is extremely rewarding. Going into Kiwanis, Jimmy
admitted, he wasn't sure if he would be a successful counselor. He
wanted to be, of course, and was very interested in learning from a
psychological perspective. He soon learned, though, that the best way
to experience Kiwanis Camp was to forget all the labels, diagnoses,
and papers and just get to know the campers for the people they are.
Once he did that, he was able to create stronger bonds with his
campers, Eric, Tori, Sully, and Michael, with whom Jimmy says he had
a great time.
The sky was growing dark, and I,
wearing a dress, was getting chilly, so Jimmy and I drew our
conversation to a close. When asked if he had anything else to tell
people who are thinking about being counselors, he thought for a
moment and concluded, “Kiwanis had a profound impact on me. It
changed my focus from psychology to special education. The personal
growth I experienced...that was huge for me, and the connection with
others was phenomenal. I felt a great sense of accomplishment.”
I wish every prospective student would read this interview. It captures so much of what camp is about. Thank you, Shelley and Jimmy!
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DeleteYep that will happen at Kiwanis ;) Thanks Shelley and Jimmy! Really nice article!
ReplyDeleteWow, What a great article. I had no idea of a law like that. Great work Shelley Jeff P
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